I still love him but...?

I've had two long term relationships, so I kind of know where you are coming from. It seems like when I first get w/ a guy the is great, and then its just not so much. I think I get bored. Maybe that's what's wrong with you, too. I fixed the problem with my current boyfriend by going to the adult store and picking up a couple of movies. Maybe trying getting a "toy". It really does spice things up. And if it's your b/f not turning you on, maybe the adult movies will! He won't care, as long as he's getting what he wants :o)